The Most Magnificent Thing in the World

February 8th, 2012

What is the most magnificent thing in the world? The Grand Canyon? Google? Ginger ice cream?

It would be something to laugh about if so many of us didn’t spend so much time seeking it out. It can become a quest, looking here and there for the next thing that will amaze us. Some of us spend hours watching YouTube videos, sure that one of them is going to be truly magnificent. Some of us are always trying to earn more money, sure that the experience of wealth will be magnificent. For others it is sex, or adrenaline, or television shows, or movies, or . . .

But what would happen if the most magnificent thing in the world were also the most ordinary thing in the world? What if true magnificence dwelled in the light refracted from a dewdrop? In the feeling of a plain grey stone in one’s hand? In the sight of your child or friend or loved one? What if we saw magnificence in every face we looked upon? In every breath we breathed? In the feeling of wind on our cheeks or the curious rubbery buttons our fingertips brush as we hold a television’s remote control?

This, after all, is our natural state of being. When we’re not hyper-stimulated, wired on caffeine and striving, our minds thick with schedules and duties and what-ifs. This is what we’re like when we’re effortless, when we stop trying, when we allow our natural awareness to stumble out into the light. Oh! Here I am! I’ve been here all along!

The most magnificent thing in the world isn’t a “thing” at all. It’s something startlingly close, amazingly simple, delightfully familiar. The most magnificent thing in the world . . .  is You.

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The $100 Giveaway Adventure

October 19th, 2011

The Occupy Wall Street protesters in the United States are pointing out a number of things, including that there is a vastly uneven distribution of wealth in the U.S. Wikipedia states that in 2011, 20% of the population controlled 84% of the wealth, and a Vanity Fair article recently stated that 1% of the U.S. population earns 25% of the income. It’s even more startling when you look at the world distribution of wealth. A 2006 study reported that 1% of the world population owns 40% of the wealth.

My point here isn’t to note statistics. It’s to suggest that we humans have a largely unexamined relationship with money, and that unexamined relationship has a profound effect on our personal lives and our view of others. Here’ s an experiment you can try yourself. It takes some courage, but the results can be very, very interesting.

If you’re in that top 40%, you can probably afford to lose $100. It might be uncomfortable, but the experiment I’m about to propose is probably the best investment you can make with that amount of money. You’ll have some experiences that you’ll most likely remember for the rest of your life.

How it Works

It’s quite simple. Take $100 and get it broken into $20 bills. Then, over the next five days, give each of those bills away to someone different. If you absolutely can’t part with $100, try giving away $50 broken into tens. If a hundred dollars is a totally comfortable amount of money, consider a larger amount.

To make things really interesting, explore giving the bills to different sorts of people. You might give one to a homeless person on the street, another to a wealthy-looking businesswoman, another to your restaurant server as a way-too-large tip, another to the person in front of you in line at the grocery, and another to someone who is rude to you.

This experiment can lead to all sorts of insights. If you decide to take the challenge, please send comments to let us know what you discovered/experienced. I’ll be excited to hear your stories!

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Your Brain is a Phillips Screwdriver

October 3rd, 2011

Okay. I’m not talking about your brain exactly, but rather your thinking mind. We humans tend to believe that thinking is a necessity for just about everything. When it comes to our day-to-day life, our thinking mind is usually on overdrive, applying itself to every problem and issue we encounter. For many of us, our thinking mind won’t slow down even when we’re doing something that definitely doesn’t require thinking, such as trying to fall asleep. Sound familiar?

Screwdriver Brain

A Phillips head screwdriver is a handy tool. It ends in a little ‘x’ that fits neatly into Phillips head screws. With this screwdriver, you can drive those Phillips screws into wood. Now, a Phillips screwdriver could be used for other things. Combined with a hammer, you could use it to pound a hole through something. You could use it as a prybar. You could use the handle as a sort of low-quality hammer. But the point is that a Phillips screwdriver is a specialized tool. It’s meant for certain things. You’d think someone was pretty strange if you saw them trying to use the screwdriver as a toothbrush, or to write a book, or to eat soup with.  Clearly, they’d be using the wrong tool for the job.

Thinking Thinking Thinking

With that image of someone putting toothpaste on the end of a screwdriver and trying to brush their teeth, let’s consider the thinking mind. As difficult as it is to believe, the thinking mind is also a specialized tool. It is very good at taking clear symbolic images and fitting them together in order to solve logic-based problems.

But that’s about all it’s good for.

People don’t usually discover this until they get out of the habit of brushing their teeth with screwdrivers. They might begin learning martial arts, or animal tracking, or dance. Then they discover a huge part of their minds– a part that we don’t really have a good name for but that is called Mushin in Japanese and Wu Wei in Chinese. As this part of the mind is discovered, people find that they can accomplish extremely complex tasks without any thinking at all. Indeed, as soon as the thinking mind intrudes (as it so often habitually does), people will feel a ‘block’ to their actions, finding that what was graceful, easy and natural with Mushin is halting, clumsy and stumbling with Thinking.

In martial arts, the infinitely complex actions of a full-range sparring match become beautiful to watch when Mushin guides the fighters’ minds. In tracking, an immense number of clues — from impressions on the ground to the weather to scents to the lay of land — all these clues come together with intense clarity when someone is engaged in ‘intuitive tracking’. Conversely, when they apply their thinking minds they’ll often get tangled in confusion or fixated on how two clues connect, missing details or the message of the bigger picture.

Natural Brain

What would life be like if we only pulled out our Thinking tool when we needed it? Our minds would usually be very quiet, and our actions would almost always be harmonious with our environments, whether that environment is nature, a social context, or simply lying in bed to go to sleep. Most of the stress, frustration and anger that is born of too much thinking would dissolve.

Learning to Use The Thinking Brain

For most people, our thinking brain uses us. It keeps us awake at night, paralyzes us in over-analyzing almost everything, and constantly tries to intrude on the emotional world. But we do this only out of habit. Breaking that habit isn’t a matter of suppressing our thinking. Instead, it’s a matter of becoming aware of our thinking, so that we know when it’s happening. Then we’ll naturally begin to question the value of constant thought. As things currently stand for most of us, thinking is on auto-pilot, and we don’t even question whether it’s the tool for the job.

Another route toward Mushin is to find a martial arts, meditation, or yoga teacher (or any of various other arts) who knows the value of not speaking too much, of letting you find your place with your physical and mental actions. There are few of them out there, but you can find them if you search carefully.

For me, one of the greatest teachers of Mushin has been nature. Out in the woods or fields it quickly becomes clear that the thinking mind is mostly baggage, and the more time we spend in nature, the more our thinking mind begins to naturally quiet and still.

Whatever your means, it’s a fruitful exploration to see what happens when we stop brushing our teeth with screwdrivers.

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