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		<title>By: Kenton Whitman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kenton Whitman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 16:32:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Greetings Robert,

Well, I&#039;ll have to take the fault, as better insights don&#039;t excuse lesser ones =)  Still, this article has been &#039;just the thing&#039; for a number of readers, and if you hadn&#039;t read it already, I&#039;d refer you to &#039;Everything You Hear About Enlightenment is a Lie!  Not only is &#039;dualistic&#039; and &#039;non-dualistic&#039; a dualistic affirmation -- any word that we use, ever, implies a dualistic view, so we&#039;d have to limit ourselves to blank entries if we were to do things properly, and even then our minds could crowd in a dualism within the context of our idea of &#039;nothing&#039; or &#039;emptiness&#039;.  Oneness is one of my least favorite images (and I&#039;m loathe to use any whatsoever) when discussing Awakening, but it&#039;s used purposefully in this article.  I think the key here is that none of these articles stand alone -- they&#039;re meant to all work within the context of the rest of the articles on this site, where a process of creating and undoing our ideas is played at.  For some people, a certain article might seem remedial or even contradictory to another, but if we attempt to understand &#039;awakening&#039; through descriptions, however well-laid or enticing, we&#039;re going to end up doing nothing but creating a new and pretty idea in our heads.  This article, then, is meant to suggest something to people who have never even considered that there might be &#039;something else&#039; -- to suggest a path toward taking their &#039;first step&#039;. 

Thanks for your comments of late, and for being a discriminating reader.  I&#039;m always attempting to hone my ability to make things clear and to not lead our minds into more tangled thickets.  Having someone like you here helps in the honing =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greetings Robert,</p>
<p>Well, I&#8217;ll have to take the fault, as better insights don&#8217;t excuse lesser ones =)  Still, this article has been &#8216;just the thing&#8217; for a number of readers, and if you hadn&#8217;t read it already, I&#8217;d refer you to &#8216;Everything You Hear About Enlightenment is a Lie!  Not only is &#8216;dualistic&#8217; and &#8216;non-dualistic&#8217; a dualistic affirmation &#8212; any word that we use, ever, implies a dualistic view, so we&#8217;d have to limit ourselves to blank entries if we were to do things properly, and even then our minds could crowd in a dualism within the context of our idea of &#8216;nothing&#8217; or &#8216;emptiness&#8217;.  Oneness is one of my least favorite images (and I&#8217;m loathe to use any whatsoever) when discussing Awakening, but it&#8217;s used purposefully in this article.  I think the key here is that none of these articles stand alone &#8212; they&#8217;re meant to all work within the context of the rest of the articles on this site, where a process of creating and undoing our ideas is played at.  For some people, a certain article might seem remedial or even contradictory to another, but if we attempt to understand &#8216;awakening&#8217; through descriptions, however well-laid or enticing, we&#8217;re going to end up doing nothing but creating a new and pretty idea in our heads.  This article, then, is meant to suggest something to people who have never even considered that there might be &#8217;something else&#8217; &#8212; to suggest a path toward taking their &#8216;first step&#8217;. </p>
<p>Thanks for your comments of late, and for being a discriminating reader.  I&#8217;m always attempting to hone my ability to make things clear and to not lead our minds into more tangled thickets.  Having someone like you here helps in the honing =)</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Green</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Green</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 10:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Did you have a bad day when you wrote this article? :-) So oneness is the solution now.. mmm. By the way, stating that we have basically two models: dualistic and non-dualistic is in itself a *dualistic* affirmation ;-) 

IMHO, the &quot;problem&quot; is not about the model of reality (this again -- the paradigm thing -- is another mind game); it&#039;s about reality itself: the &quot;sense&quot; of reality, *any* reality, and how *seriously* we take/deal with this sense of reality.

Definitely not your best post. Yeah! It&#039;s your fault; since you&#039;ve shown us much better insights!

Sincerely,

Robert</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did you have a bad day when you wrote this article? <img src='http://kentonwhitman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  So oneness is the solution now.. mmm. By the way, stating that we have basically two models: dualistic and non-dualistic is in itself a *dualistic* affirmation <img src='http://kentonwhitman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>IMHO, the &#8220;problem&#8221; is not about the model of reality (this again &#8212; the paradigm thing &#8212; is another mind game); it&#8217;s about reality itself: the &#8220;sense&#8221; of reality, *any* reality, and how *seriously* we take/deal with this sense of reality.</p>
<p>Definitely not your best post. Yeah! It&#8217;s your fault; since you&#8217;ve shown us much better insights!</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>Robert</p>
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		<title>By: Kenton Whitman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kenton Whitman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2009 02:47:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Peter,

Absolutely, we can just as easily get into the &#039;all is one&#039; trap.  Just as funny and delightful as our usual way of seeing everything separately!

I can understand your feelings of isolation -- I had a long period of feeling like -- &#039;am I the only one in the world who sees things this way&#039;?  At some point, another realization came, and I saw that those around me who had appeared to be living in dualism were actually unfolding as perfectly as a tree, a cloud, a Buddha, or me!  That&#039;s when the isolation vanished.  

You are so clear -- you&#039;re not afraid to see just where you are.  Often, people are so desperate to appear enlightened or different that they&#039;ll insist that they&#039;ve &#039;got it&#039; -- and as long as you think you&#039;ve &#039;got it&#039; you can be pretty darn sure you don&#039;t =)  

The statement that you quoted above is tricky -- if you haven&#039;t already, I&#039;d have you read &lt;a href=&quot;http://kentonwhitman.com/2007/02/06/everything-you-hear-about-enlightenment-is-a-lie/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Everything You Hear About Enlightenment is a Lie&lt;/a&gt;.  And to answer your question regarding cause/effect, I&#039;d steer you to the article on &lt;a href=&quot;http://kentonwhitman.com/2007/02/04/karma/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Karma&lt;/a&gt;, which will also bring into question &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.urbanmonk.net/132/the-true-nature-of-time/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;our idea of linear time&lt;/a&gt;, which I addressed at a guest post on the Urban Monk&#039;s wonderful blog.

Thanks, Peter!

Hugs,
Kenton</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Peter,</p>
<p>Absolutely, we can just as easily get into the &#8216;all is one&#8217; trap.  Just as funny and delightful as our usual way of seeing everything separately!</p>
<p>I can understand your feelings of isolation &#8212; I had a long period of feeling like &#8212; &#8216;am I the only one in the world who sees things this way&#8217;?  At some point, another realization came, and I saw that those around me who had appeared to be living in dualism were actually unfolding as perfectly as a tree, a cloud, a Buddha, or me!  That&#8217;s when the isolation vanished.  </p>
<p>You are so clear &#8212; you&#8217;re not afraid to see just where you are.  Often, people are so desperate to appear enlightened or different that they&#8217;ll insist that they&#8217;ve &#8216;got it&#8217; &#8212; and as long as you think you&#8217;ve &#8216;got it&#8217; you can be pretty darn sure you don&#8217;t =)  </p>
<p>The statement that you quoted above is tricky &#8212; if you haven&#8217;t already, I&#8217;d have you read <a href="http://kentonwhitman.com/2007/02/06/everything-you-hear-about-enlightenment-is-a-lie/" rel="nofollow">Everything You Hear About Enlightenment is a Lie</a>.  And to answer your question regarding cause/effect, I&#8217;d steer you to the article on <a href="http://kentonwhitman.com/2007/02/04/karma/" rel="nofollow">Karma</a>, which will also bring into question <a href="http://www.urbanmonk.net/132/the-true-nature-of-time/" rel="nofollow">our idea of linear time</a>, which I addressed at a guest post on the Urban Monk&#8217;s wonderful blog.</p>
<p>Thanks, Peter!</p>
<p>Hugs,<br />
Kenton</p>
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